Make space for the sadness, the grief, the loss and make space for the relief and the hope.
Sit down with these feelings and invite them into your home, into your mind. Let them be something else for you now.
Renounce whatever preconceptions you’ve had of them before, no longer believe there is something wrong with them. Make them something else. Allow them to be something else. It’s a simple as that. It’s almost too simple. Just play with the idea of giving them an alternate reality.
It’s hard because you go somewhere with it all. You go somewhere else with it. You take these feelings and you transform them into something else, you give them another identity. Meaning you’re not right where it is.